NAIJA YOUTHS ARENA

Happiness is a chief goal in life. Everyone wants to be happy ultimately. Everything else men do is towards that goal of being a happy person. Anything that takes away your happiness is a loss irrespective of what it is. Men will gladly give away all their wealth in other to be Happy. What is the use of money without joy? But this happiness has been covered with alot of fuss which doesn't have to go so. It is not far fetched. Not dependent on other people's actions and certainly not what we should wait for only after achieving our main goals in life. It can be achieved by the little things we do or fail to do. Our happiness is in our hands. Here are 10 habbits killing our individual happiness. 1. POSTPONING YOUR GOALS. Procrastination will keep you from reaching your goals more effectively than any other obstacle. Start today by taking one baby step toward a goal. Do the same the next day. It doesn’t have to be much, but do something every day. Consistent effo...

Just as women find some things unattractive about other women, men can also find things they don’t consider attractive in women. Here are the 10 things men hate about women: 1. EXTREME HAIRSTYLE Using products that boost your hair volume as well as accessories in your hair is something men are not attracted to – they prefer long, soft and silky natural hair. 2. TOO MUCH MAKEUP It’s fine using a bit of makeup on your face, but men don’t like it when you’re completely masking your facial features. Apply makeup evenly and pick a tone that suits your natural complexion. Remember – the “less is more” principle applies for makeup. 3. ARTIFICIAL EYELASHES Never use to much mascara on your eyelashes or wear artificial ones – men prefer nice and long natural eyelashes. 4. SHINY MAKEUP Instead of using shiny tones, go for matte makeup as men love it. 5. YELLOW TEETH AND BAD BREATH Yellow stained teeth and bad breath will put off anyone, not just men. Keep your oral hy...

One of the traits of successful  people is, they recognize the inevitability of temporal disappointments and defeats, and that they accept them as a normal and natural a part of life. They do everything viable to avoid problem, but whilst problem comes, a successful persons reply with a effective mind-set. Laziness is mental problem that has answer. there is no hassle without a solution. untill you die, you’d keep facing challenges in existence and the more you conquer them, the more you grow in life. a majority of these statistics are all indeniable. Laziness as a Problem may be resolved via making use of the right principles used in Problem solving. The bitter truth is that you may not  resolve any trouble until you find out the foundation cause of such trouble. So to overcome laziness, it’s exceedingly advisable to recognize the causes of laziness. The discovery of the phenomena that causes laziness could enable you to find a lasting method to laziness. Afte...

What is it that you want? Every human has needs. Depending on how much you want whatever it is, you can get it with these 5proven secrets for getting anything you want. Life is not mystical but practical. Life is not fair but principles can guarantee alot in life. When you apply principles which do not fail you make it very difficult for you to fail. Here are 5 principles, know and apply them to any situation and you will have your way with it. 1) KNOW WHAT IT IS YOU WANT.    What is it that you want? What exactly do you want? It is not okay to have an idea of what will make you happy,  a general idea of success. What specially do you want? Many people want money but just a few can answer the question. "How much do you need?" And that's the reason the majority cannot have what they want because they are not even decided about it. They are not particular about what they want. You want to go to school. Which school, which actual course? Which exact type of ma...

Everyone wants to be successful, but success means different things to different people. To some it means academic degrees, to some, getting married, having children, being debt free, being famous or being rich. Even being rich still differs in definition to many people. To some, just a million naira is enough, to some anything less than billions is not wealth. Others believe if they can feed properly and live comfortably they are rich. People have different needs and different perception of even the same need. In all these, people go to various lengths to attain what they want, but it seams that only people who know what exactly they want ever get it . Only those who have clarity of goals achieve success. Life is not fair and we do not always get what we wish for. For the most part, we get nothing except we fight for it and we do not fight battles we think profits us nothing. It is only when a man is clear of what he wants that he begins to fight for it. The benefits o...

First I want to summit that you cannot change anybody without their consent and cooperation. We all have one or two persons we wish could become better in one area o life and behaviour or the other. Be it a child,a spouse a friend an employee etc A drunkard husband, a nagging wife, delinquent juvenile, an underperforming employee or what have you. Some of our people are good behaved but for one or two bad habits we may wish they dropped. We try many things to force people to change for the  better, bribe, threat, pep talks, advise, encouragements and even punishments but they have not worked for some of them. Changing humans is one of the most difficult and frustrating, just like you know how difficult it is to change yourself even with beautiful yearly resolutions. The worse about trying to manipulate people to change or do anything for that matter is that we become annoying and overbearing, forcing them to the extreme of a fixed heart. Once a person decides not to change, ...

   It is said that man is a social animal. Nobody can exist alone. We definitely need people. It is so vital that we cannot really live without other people. A child left to himself has very little chance of becoming an adult. Left without social relationships we be become disasters. Basic life needs as food and shelter are hardly met without input of people even going about their normal activities.     This post wants to x-ray same extremely important relationships are needs to develop and maintain for a life of success and happiness. Without these life will be difficult, uninteresting and unenjoyable. Success in life will be unattainable and hardship inevitable.     Your ability to develop and maintain these relationships will go a long way to make your life journey easier and enjoyable with your sorrows and mistakes trivialised. These are not all the relationships there are, but this in my estimation are very important ones everyone seeki...

Finally a Husband's point of view. At last a Husband has taken the time to write down this all finally. We always hear "the rules" from the Wife's side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE! 1. Husbands ARE not mind readers. 1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. 1. Crying is blackmail. 1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it! 1. Yes and No are perfectly Acceptable answers to almost every question. 1. Come to us with a problem only If you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for. 1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor. 1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 ...

    When you gain admission to study any course in college or university, passion is a very essential ingredient if you are going to succeed in that course or career path. It  is extremely important that you have passion for your course. Passion means enthusiasm, zeal. This is what will drive you to do your best and achieve the best fits in sch and even in your career when you graduate from school.    Without passion, no matter how easy the course is,you will not do well, because you will not put in your best, and lack of passion increases the chances of you dropping out of school and not finishing with your education. Lack of passion also also ensures you never succeed in that discipline no matter how lucrative it is or how gifted or equipped you are. Passion is absolutely necessary for success in any endeavor    The biggest cause of lack of passion for you course of study is a situation where you did not choose that course by yourself in...

It is said  show me your friends and I will tell you who you are; This is not mere cliche. Friends have so much impact in our lives that we are unconsciously Influenced by them.  We begin to behave like them even without thinking about it. If we understand the influence the people we call friends have on our lives we will all be careful in being being quick to call someone our friend.     You are an average of the sum total of the 5 closest persons in your life, when you look at your friends there are usually many things that are similar among you. Before any friendship will develop, there are one or two things that bring you together.  Your similarities may be good thongs but watch it. The bad characters in your friend that you do not like, by being close to the person gradually become permissible and as time goes on enjoyable.    Watch your friends have been a time tested advice, many have had their live destroyed and their destinies ...