NAIJA YOUTHS ARENA

What is it that you want? Every human has needs. Depending on how much you want whatever it is, you can get it with these 5proven secrets for getting anything you want. Life is not mystical but practical. Life is not fair but principles can guarantee alot in life. When you apply principles which do not fail you make it very difficult for you to fail. Here are 5 principles, know and apply them to any situation and you will have your way with it. 1) KNOW WHAT IT IS YOU WANT.    What is it that you want? What exactly do you want? It is not okay to have an idea of what will make you happy,  a general idea of success. What specially do you want? Many people want money but just a few can answer the question. "How much do you need?" And that's the reason the majority cannot have what they want because they are not even decided about it. They are not particular about what they want. You want to go to school. Which school, which actual course? Which exact type of ma

Everyone wants to be successful, but success means different things to different people. To some it means academic degrees, to some, getting married, having children, being debt free, being famous or being rich. Even being rich still differs in definition to many people. To some, just a million naira is enough, to some anything less than billions is not wealth. Others believe if they can feed properly and live comfortably they are rich. People have different needs and different perception of even the same need. In all these, people go to various lengths to attain what they want, but it seams that only people who know what exactly they want ever get it . Only those who have clarity of goals achieve success. Life is not fair and we do not always get what we wish for. For the most part, we get nothing except we fight for it and we do not fight battles we think profits us nothing. It is only when a man is clear of what he wants that he begins to fight for it. The benefits o

First I want to summit that you cannot change anybody without their consent and cooperation. We all have one or two persons we wish could become better in one area o life and behaviour or the other. Be it a child,a spouse a friend an employee etc A drunkard husband, a nagging wife, delinquent juvenile, an underperforming employee or what have you. Some of our people are good behaved but for one or two bad habits we may wish they dropped. We try many things to force people to change for the  better, bribe, threat, pep talks, advise, encouragements and even punishments but they have not worked for some of them. Changing humans is one of the most difficult and frustrating, just like you know how difficult it is to change yourself even with beautiful yearly resolutions. The worse about trying to manipulate people to change or do anything for that matter is that we become annoying and overbearing, forcing them to the extreme of a fixed heart. Once a person decides not to change, that

   It is said that man is a social animal. Nobody can exist alone. We definitely need people. It is so vital that we cannot really live without other people. A child left to himself has very little chance of becoming an adult. Left without social relationships we be become disasters. Basic life needs as food and shelter are hardly met without input of people even going about their normal activities.     This post wants to x-ray same extremely important relationships are needs to develop and maintain for a life of success and happiness. Without these life will be difficult, uninteresting and unenjoyable. Success in life will be unattainable and hardship inevitable.     Your ability to develop and maintain these relationships will go a long way to make your life journey easier and enjoyable with your sorrows and mistakes trivialised. These are not all the relationships there are, but this in my estimation are very important ones everyone seeking for success and fulfilment in life s